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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 09:58

How does one succeed in life?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Is Obito Uchiha redeemable?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Does not procrastinate.

Hello, I have a question about astral projection. I started to get interested in this a little while after my mum passed in april. I thought I may be able to see her and speak with her if I managed to achieve astral projection. Since this interest, every time i sleep on my back I go into sleep paralysis. However, I cant progress into astral projection because it is very scary for me as I feel like I'm suffocating when this happens. I panic and force myself to wake up. This only ever happened about once a year before this. It sometimes lasts a long time. This has happened about 3 times per week since my mum died, as mentioned on a previous post. I no longer try to go into it anymore(due to the suffocating feeling), but it still happens. I read that sleep paralysis is the pathway to astral projection. Why has this started to happen so frequently since simply taking an interest in it? Is this connected to the afterlife? I am concerned about it as I now cannot seem to stop this happening. Could it be my mum trying to communicate? Im asking due to more knowledge around this in this group.

That's it for today.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Is there porn on TikTok?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Why do nearly all of the answers on Quora have “read more” and when I click on it, I get a virus warning every time? Has anyone else had this happen?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

What makes you different?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Why does it smell so bad? I noticed that when I move around my vagina has a stench. It’s usually a wet liquid, almost like pee. There’re little to no discharge and it doesn’t hurt or itch.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Procrastinates a lot.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Why am I always so tired, no matter how much I sleep?

Making more friends is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

I see lots of pictures of women who have huge clits are they real or what?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Can you share a picture of your favorite outfit and explain why you love it?

What I need from you?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Ask yourself:

Do people really never face any hidden costs or surprises with surgeries in countries with single-payer healthcare like the NHS?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Is it right to visit any shrine or tomb in Islam?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What are some effective strategies for getting more upvotes on Quora?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

How are Hinduism and Sikhism related, considering they both originated in Punjab, India?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Why are people with borderline personality disorder so capable of ripping someone apart with their words?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Why do older men like to get anal sex?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.